aku yang sindrom

'second child syndrome' atau 'sindrom anak kedua'. have u heard about it? it's pretty familiar..so i assume semua penah dengar pasal sindrom ni. frankly speaking, aku selalu sangat dengar sindrom ni. waktu awal2 dulu, aku ingat ala-ala sindrom down tu. tu pasal aku x suka dengar pasal sindrom ni. sebab sindrom ni melibatkan anak kedua! disebabkan aku pun anak kedua, so aku sangat x suka dilibatkan dengan sindrom ni coz aku terasa diri aku cam budak cacat lak. ye r kan. sindrom. sindrom tu cacat r kan? kan?

aku tak tau mimpi hape aku malam ni, search info pasal sindrom ni. & i was shocked reading all those articles. sebab? thiz sindrom mmg btol2 wujud, and all the criteria anak2 yang menderita sindrom anak kedua ni mcm ade kt aku.(mcm ye..). these are some of the infos. i'll try to make it short. hope u'll learn something from it.

1. teori 'second child sundrome' ni diperkenalkan oleh Alfred Adler, an Austrian psychiatrist. menurut beliau, human personality influenced by birth.(of coz still de factor lain).
2. ciri-ciri anak kedua yang mengalami sindrom ini :

• selalu rasa isolated dalam family or feel not belonging in a group.
• selalu try to be the exact opposite in personality, interests dll antara adik beradik yang lain.
• mereka cnderung utk lakukan apa2 shj in order to get parents attention, even if that means being naughty.
• biasanya seorang yang suka alone. do his/her own biznes.
• having difficulties latching on a person dlm relationship.
• bermasalah in career and decision making.
  
• usually creative & artistic, tp xleh work under pressure.
• can be so sensitif. pantang ditegur. even teguran positif pn can be hurtful for them.
• need to try a little harder and put more effort in order to get noticed by the parents.

no wonder r people awiz said dat anak kedua ni differ from the others. since they r more sensitive, they tend to rebel. parents sepatutnya bagi sokongan pd kami2 ni..and jangan paksa mereka buat sesuatu. let them choose. parents suppose to encourage them to use their own talent. and do not keep on criticising them. they can blow up! (trust me on this)

p/s: now i noe nape aku slalu melenting je kt umah.hahahaa..